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Asexuals VS the world by Kibbitzer Asexuals VS the world by Kibbitzer
or "you just need to find the right one!", "don't worry you'll understand...you're just confused" and MORE...

100% Based on real and useless conversations with our friends, relatives, and random people.

that's our story: too many people assume asexuality doesn't exist.
we are just OR liars OR confused OR childish OR traumatized by particular events OR the worst pervs (WTF??)
the real asexuality is NEVER a considerable option..(my friend is always called gay because os his hair LOL)

this pisses me off..really! I don't understand what the problem is! misinformation? rejection? WELL...

Question: WHAT THE FUCK ASEXUALITY IS??
Answer: basically is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone or low or absent interest in sexual activity.
It may be considered the lack of a sexual orientation, or one of the four types thereof, alongside heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality. A study in 2004 placed the prevalence of asexuality at 1%.

BUT! this is a complicated topic. we are all different and there are various sub-categories blah blah blah.
read here for more informations. >> en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuali…

BTW we exist! we are not fucking legendary creatures JEEZ! now we understand how Santa Claus feels!
exactly as heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality is NOT a choice.
we can appreciate a nice pair of boobs, a bootie or some cool abs ~
we can be romantic, we can love and want to marry someone ~
the only relevant difference is "we don't care about your...your... (ノ⊙ヮ⊙)ノ~『✧~*YOU KNOW WHAT*~✧』"



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more real life stuff
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:iconndusk77:
Ndusk77 Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2017   Filmographer
You know, for all the people who ever asked those types of questions - (which you reflected in that same "blank person" on every screen of your drawings) - I don't blame them. AT ALL.

NO ONE on the planet ever used to be "asexual" within the last nineteen centuries until just recently. Asexuality started out in Japan, where testosterone levels were being deliberately bred out of people for the sole purpose of population reduction, by way of people voluntarily deciding never to have any type of sexual interest at all. Therefore, Asexuality is one of those prime repercussions of that. The same thing may be happening in America now, which is NO accident. Japan was just the testing grounds for that. It's a malicious process, and it's sad that most people actually believe asexuality isn't some kind of testosterone-related disorder.

None of this is to say it was YOUR fault, or any other "asexual" for that matter. I'm just saying this was a deliberately socially-engineered system built for voluntary population reduction. When I randomly saw this drawing (funny as it is), I HAD to point this out. Most asexuals don't know this, and I thought I had to speak the facts on this.

So don't feel offended by people who ask you all those types of "inappropriate questions". They weren't even trying to offend you. They all just knew SOMETHING WAS OFF. I did too. And all I did here was clarify why that is.
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spaceghett1 Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2017
My friend doesnt believe in asexuality and Im standing right next to her :)
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:iconbasicbeyond:
basicbeyond Featured By Owner Edited Sep 13, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
honestly, those two sound more mean than these guys.
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:icond-beyond:
D-Beyond Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
FINALLY SOMEONE WHO PUTS IT INTO WORDS (or much rather a comic)
bless your souls!
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Katamata1 Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2017
Argh, I would get annoyed too if I was asexual. Sometimes I feel I need to justify my heterosexuality. XD :facepalm: This is sensible comic, though.
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f-deviant-q Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
Discovered this completely by accident.

I was not aware of the notion, and got one of this "But of course" moments.

Thanks for bringing some focus on this topic.

BTW, I like your drawing style (the reason I clicked on your deviation).
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urzapw2000 Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017
I'm aromantic...
I do understand how annoying questions like that could be
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Sweetbriar42 Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
That is so SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD!!! I have enough problems trying to get my father to understand my bisexuality isn't just me "experimenting"...
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PencilRubberPaper Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017
Pseudo Psychologist 2 The Revenge xD I think I just died :'D
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Gwendolynhammer Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
so true!
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SunsetDulmari Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017  New Deviant
idk why but i laugh :v xD


PD: i understand you im les
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Darlaimerner Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017
Therapist: "did you choose it because you are complexed?"

Kibbi: "did you choose to be an idiot?"
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urzapw2000 Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017
ok now that's funny!
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KaiSama888 Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I feel this... Reactions of those people is painfully accurate. Still great comic~
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mamimi-chu Featured By Owner Edited Sep 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Is it THAT difficult for people to understand that no one is born with the same "level" of libido? Like seriously if people had done these questions to you in real life seriously then i admire you for not hitting them 
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boylov Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
dammit you're a genius! XD
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runewuff Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yerp. (By the Gods, some people are hopeless...) When someone tells you they are asexual (or any other thing), you may or may not believe them, but that's not the point, they are telling you how they want to be treated. If you care at all, you should respect their boundaries, even if you don't understand it. At least, that's how I see it.
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Sellen-SolaAnima Featured By Owner Jun 9, 2017
I feel you. In my country even bisexuality is still "dark magic". :\
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Rathp9111 Featured By Owner May 30, 2017
I just wanted to encourage how informative you are about this sensitive but needed topic. My best friend is asexually but not a-romantic(aka she wants to be loved and romanced but is asexual) being cis I recognize that we need more information on how to be kind, loving, and supportive to others. I have been following your art for 4 or 5 years now and I always find out more and how to be better to my friend when i see these sorts of posts. Your wonderful and I support you! Thank you for everything! <3
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Kibbitzer Featured By Owner May 31, 2017  Professional Digital Artist
AWWWWW PATOOTIE :'D
I'm really lucky, I found person like me,
we are happy and absolutely asexuals.
it's a real thing hahahaha XD
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Multi-FandomNerd Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
What people don't understand the difference between aesthetic attraction and physical attraction.
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Thesilverarmada Featured By Owner Apr 9, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
yep all the time.
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oceana-knightwood Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
ACCURATE
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:iconmidnights-starlight:
Midnights-Starlight Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2017  Student General Artist
I feel this very strongly
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Graeystone Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2017
The one time its alright for an asexual to screw someone(aka 'mind screw') - the last frame with the 'self insemination'. A good mind screw would be, "Asexuals don't self-inseminate however we are known to reproduce by parthenogenesis and sometimes mitosis." 
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TiphLaMerveille Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm asexual too, but I don't talk a lot of this ;)
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TheDisc0Panda Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2017  Hobbyist Artist
I relate to this so much I've gotten at least 3 of these comments when I came out.
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Starburst333 Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2017
Lol I'm asexual and everyone else who finds out has one of these replies
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Pufferfish200 Featured By Owner Dec 16, 2016
People should be whoever the hell they want to be and as long as they are not a threat to themselves or other people, the world should not judge!! And come on guys love is love you don't need any *stuff* to certify that
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Pufferfish200 Featured By Owner Dec 16, 2016
Oh the ignorance of the world :') lol the stupid responses haha dude a person is a person whatever the hell they choose to do or not do in their spare time geez have people genuinely said this to you?!
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I-Do-Care Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2016
There are many ways to show love, and everyone's language of love is different. I totally support you. :+fav:
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:iconkibbitzer:
Kibbitzer Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2016  Professional Digital Artist
awww!
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Gender-Ninja Featured By Owner Nov 15, 2016
Ugh. Leaning more towards the sexually repulsed asexual spectrum I relate to these with the passion of a 1000 burning suns. The ones that really irritate me are where they bring up the topic of virginity in the mix. I hear "You just don't know then!" or "Isn't that just being single?" and like you mentioned the "You'll think differently when you meet 'the one' uwu " gaaaahhhhhh seriously why are people like this? I'm very happy to have solace with others who share in this frustration.

P.S all of your stuff is fantastic and I love the style of your drawing
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Kibbitzer Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2016  Professional Digital Artist
I recently met someone special and..I confirm that I'm asexual!
we are BOTH asexuals even though no one believes it X'D
they think LOVE=SEX and that's frustrating.
when I say "for the first time I love someone!" they say 
"WEREN'T U ASEXUAL? I KNEW THAT WAS BULLSHIT HHA!"

SO SAD. 
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Gender-Ninja Featured By Owner Dec 17, 2016
FOR REAL. The pain my dude.. I feel it with you. I'm happy to hear you have your special someone! You both be amazing aces in all the spaces!
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Naoanastas Featured By Owner Edited Oct 22, 2016  Student General Artist
I wonder why so many even care about someone's personal life/sexuality.It doesn't reflect your friendship/relationship at all. I could give two shit about what my friend is doing or not doing during nights.None of my business.  
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CosmosAndChaos Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2016
Also, I'm asexual and autistic. And it kind of angers me to see MY fellow asexuals fighting one oppression with another in the second panel.

People who have actually been brain damaged deserve respect and support. Disabled doesn't equal evil.

Ableism is wrong too.
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CosmosAndChaos Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2016
Acephobes deserve to die horribly. Actually, in a way that's so horrible, it would make Mortal Kombat X's Fatality designers blush.
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Sinchana-Amasawa Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2016  Student Traditional Artist
HEAR HEAR!
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PunishedFuckMeDaddy Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
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andyeatscake Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2016  Student General Artist
;u; asexuals unite
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Aureux Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I think the biggest problem is people thing you are just going through a phase like goth or something of the like. There is so much "Back in my day we didn't have all these -sexuals" and "It is just your generation trying to make yourselves unique."
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CaxceberXVI Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2016  Student Digital Artist
theyll never get it *flails on the floor*
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Gustabo08p078 Featured By Owner May 20, 2016
Good work.
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Ross-Sanger Featured By Owner May 9, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Question 1 isn't completely stupid, someone might know about intersex people and relate it to that if they're unaware of the use pertaining to sexual orientation.
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DemonicSass Featured By Owner May 4, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
My favorite question I've been asked about being ace has to be "How do you know you're ace if you haven't done the do?"

Basically asking a straight guy how he knows if he's straight if he hasn't boinked another dude yet.
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Kibbitzer Featured By Owner May 4, 2016  Professional Digital Artist
EXACTLY HAHAHAHA
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SideCharacter Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2016  Student Writer
Damn this is all to true, great artwork by the way
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IamNasher Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I know the feeling i consantly get it of my dad he assume asexuality doesn't exist
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OkamiShelli Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2016
I sorta know the feeling, but, I mean, it was a classmate in HS. (I mean it wasn't fun but still. :P At least I've only explained and had one person still be confused, once. TwT)
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